November 17, 2024

Turnout

You know, I actually thought I might sell Disco to Maude a couple of times. As late as a few months ago, even. It was on the table.


And one of the big reasons was that I wasn't sure I could give him as good of a life as he had up there. It was not a guarantee that he would be able to be turned out with Connor again when he got home, and he was really living the good life with Maude, turned out with his pregnant harem. I couldn't - wouldn't and won't - keep him in solitary confinement just for the sake of one or two foals a year.

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It was weighing on me more than I thought, because when I turned him out with Connor yesterday for the first time and absolutely nothing happened, I had tears in my eyes.


Disco ran past Connor and started grazing, then they eventually worked their way toward grazing next to each other. It was completely anti-climactic.

Of course, I knew Disco would try something at some point, which was why I first tried them together on a day that I was spending at the barn. An hour or two later, I heard "EeeeeeeeeeEEEEEeeeEEeeeeEeEEE!" and ran out to see Disco trying to mount Connor, and Connor telling him to f*** right off. 

What happened next would, I knew, determine whether or not I could keep them together. Would Disco persist, like he had when he was a yearling? Or would he respect Connor enough to not try that again?

I got my answer almost immediately: Disco slunk off to a corner of the pasture and started grazing facing away from Connor, who stood his ground. All looked well, and they were as quiet as could be the rest of the day, so it wasn't until later when I realized that Connor had, ahem, landed a kick on Disco's (retracted) man parts, and that Disco was taking this lesson (and the associated pain) VERY seriously.


Do I feel bad for him? Absolutely. Am I grateful this happened? You bet. No permanent harm was done, and Disco learned a lesson that he's not going to soon forget.

As always, we are taking stallion life one day at a time.

12 comments:

  1. It’s probably wrong that I laughed at Disco getting his man parts kicked. But it was a great lesson about consent.

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    1. You are not the only one, Maude and I both felt bad for laughing too. But yes, it was a VERY valuable lesson!

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  2. That sounds like the best possible re-introduction! Sorry to Disco's manly bits but hopefully this is a situation where one FIRM no means morning else has to be said!

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  3. This sounds like it's on the path to working out perfectly! I identify with the turnout buddy thing - my mare is quite difficult to find a suitable field mate for. Currently she is on solo turnout and that's not a long term situation I'll be happy with. Huge win that Disco and Connor look like they're going to be friends!

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    1. It's very hard, I know there are many reasons why horses can basically self-select into individual turnout. I hate that you're dealing with it!

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  4. I'll admit I had a small chuckle at this. I'm glad they can be turned out together after all. Wonderful news!

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    1. It's just, you know, a chuckleworthy life lesson, lol.

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  5. LOL! Sorry Disco, Conner isn't that kind of friend.

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    1. Hahaha, Connor is no kind of friend. I think he misses his girlfriend.

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  6. Big brother Connor teaching the important life lessons! Lol! Glad there's no harm done and hopefully that lesson is solidly learned!

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    1. For real! He has not come within 5 feet of Connor voluntarily since then, just the way I like it!

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