December 13, 2024

Setting Them Up for Success vs Pushing Buttons

On Wednesday night, Disco and I had our second driving lesson. This time, he'd be driving during evening bring-in and feeding time, hearing the grain hit the pans, seeing horses move down the aisle. I'll admit, I had a moment where I thought, "I should really set him up for success by bringing the horses in before his lesson even though it's not my night."

I didn't, and I'm glad I didn't. He was perfect. Perhaps a little sticky at the gate a time or two, but nothing egregious. It was like he didn't even hear the feeding chaos, and we had an incredibly productive lesson, even trotting for the first time.

Utterly unconcerned about feeding time

I find myself weighing this "setting him up for success vs pushing his buttons" thing a lot lately. Button pushing is, after all, how we train them. If we never tie them to a wall, they never learn to tie. If we never put them in a situation where they have to work during feeding time, they never learn to work during feeding time. 

(And obviously you have to have a little bit of both - you install "give to pressure" and "confinement" in order to set them up for success when you start tying them, for example.)

He's now been here a month, and I have erred on the side of "setting him up for success" a lot while he got settled in and while the co-op members got comfortable handling him. But now that baseline rules and human/baby horse pecking orders have been installed, I need to remind myself to keep pushing his buttons too.

Getting tacked up, which I did a surprisingly decent job with (as in, I am surprised that I remembered as much as I did). Of course I did not leave the breeching strap over his tail!
 

The latest button I'm ready to push is allowing everyone else to halter him. As I mentioned in the last post, I've been working with him for a while on this (not allowing him to grab the halter while you're trying to put it on him), but because I didn't want to ask the other co-op members to be as doggedly persistent as I've had to be about it, I've left his halter on 24/7 for a couple weeks now. With me being the only one haltering him, he got uninterrupted time with 100% consistency and black-and-white rules, and no opportunities for regression.


Over the last week, he hasn't tried to bite the halter one single time with me, so I'm ready to push that button and have everyone else try it with him too. I will be watching for a few things - does he even try it with everyone else? If he does, how persistent is he about it and how many times do they have to repeat the exercise before he keeps it closed? It's as much about how he learns and how he transposes rules from one human to another and how he respects us as it is about the actual behavior itself.

 

So far, the couple of times he's gotten it off in the field and they've been forced to halter him lately, he's been perfect for everyone else, so I have hope. But I won't know for sure until we push that button.

6 comments:

  1. I love that you're sharing your thought processes for his training, it's really educational. Also great job trotting!!!

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    1. I'm glad! I don't think I've ever thought this deeply about this stuff before, until Kate opened my eyes to it and until I really had to buckle down on it in order to set Disco up for success. Eva helped, too. And thanks! Sounds funny to congratulate me for trotting, lol, but man trotting in the cart felt weird!

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  2. I feel this choice in my soul. I’m always weighing this too. But we have to push to move forward. He’s going to be a great horse because of his temperament and because of the work you’re doing.

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  3. It's sometimes so hard to push the buttons... Emotionally more than physically. Good for you for doing it! And even more good on Disco for being like "Mom, you worry too much. This is FINE."

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  4. I feel like I go through this thought process with every decision with every young horse, and there have been many. Except Wynnie, strangely enough. It's amazing how much of a carbon copy of her mother is. Wynnie gets yote into the deep end because I know she can take it!

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  5. I'm also in the process of raising a young horse (he's just 1.5 now) and feel this deeply! Every single thing I do with him feels monumental because it sets up how that situation goes for the rest of his life..... who knew things like putting a halter on would require so much thought and purpose!

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